This Video Gives Me Feelings...Tingly, Hot, Sexy Feelings.

I've had this on repeat (video and audio) for the last couple of days now. I'm kind of in love with this. I think most people would assume because it celebrates us Black girls. Yeah that's true, but I think the bigger reason I love this so much is because this pair of White boys celebrate their love for Black girls in such a decidedly confrontational way.

The Appeal of the Old School Fantasy: Woman as Beautiful Creature, Draped Across Her Man's Arm.

I once told my Ex Boo: "I'll be your little woman." To which she reacted harshly (one of the very first times she became annoyed with me outright, and let it be known) and told me in a scathing whisper "I'm not a dude--I don't want you to be my 'little woman.' You're my…